My Boyfriend Won?t Talk To Me: Five Steps To Open His Heart

Posted on November 25, 2008 in Health by admin

I was busted and I knew it. He was able to gently show me how inattentive I was and
could laugh about it, it was one of the most loving gestures I have
felt from him in a long time.

“Hmmmmm??

I said as I realized that my man had just said something to me and I had not heard one word of it.

“Yes, Larry,? He said, “That is a great idea, I think we should do that.?

I snapped into the present and looked at him. He was doing what I do when I can’t get his attention.

I was busted and I knew it. Better yet, he knew it.

I feel an inner stab of pain whenever I say something to him and get
no response. Even worse is when I say something and he starts another
conversation. I don’t address these missteps every time they happen.
Truth be told, I don’t like bringing them to his attention, but I am
learning that if I am experiencing that stab of pain, it is ok for me
to do something about that.

So when my man was able to gently show me how inattentive I was and
could laugh about it, it was one of the most loving gestures I have
felt from him in a long time. Seeing that my new communication choices
are making a difference for both of us feels really good.

It was hard for me to hear him say that when I am talking about my
latest passion, that he feels that is all I want to talk about. It IS
all I want to talk about but knowing he feels that way, I can make a
plan for what I need to feel heard.

1. Create A Tribe: (Thanks , you will be coming up
with your own ideas! I can’t wait to hear how you find ways to create
new connections with him!

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